When I thought about relationships, I realized that I’ve met people who immediately pull me towards them, and sometimes I felt the opposite. Hence, I compare the attractive principle of interpersonal relationships to magnetism. Magnetism is a force of attraction or repulsion due to an arrangement of electrons. Surely, I’ve sent both vibes and I started to think what makes the difference - what was different within me when I felt that I attract people, and when I didn't...
I thought about these three things immediately, they can be involved in the formation of the repellent energy. The good news is that the attraction energy can be cultivated because magnetism such as love comes from within.
Are you telling people what you think they want to hear? If communication is not transparent and in alignment with your own truth, people will sense it and this might lead them to take distance from you. Stay true to yourself! You can start this by simply stopping for a moment and taking five deep breaths, then listen to your own inner voice. You have the courage to communicate openly. You can start exercising this muscle and remember to reward yourself when you dare to speak up.
Do you make self-honoring choices? Have you, for example, abandoned your hobbies or your friends in order to please others? People will sense a lack of self-honor, and they might take distance or abuse this. Therefore, it's time to make a course correction. This is an easy and practical exercise that allows you to get started right away! The first step is to draw attention to your body posture - check if there’s a need to correct your posture - stand up straight with your shoulders back and keep your eyes forward. Now is the time to ask yourself what you really want and promise to honor yourself. You have the right to say no and you have the right to say yes. Know your own inner strength!
Do you have negative thoughts about the future? Negative thoughts and fear can create repelling energy, which makes people shun. How can you change your thinking patterns? If you tend to create terrible images of what can go wrong, you have the power to create images of what can happen in a positive sense too. One good way is to write the negative thoughts on a paper and then think about how you could see the situation in a more positive light, or as an opportunity for growth. Positive thoughts are like fuel for magnetism, so please cherish them. You are the master of your own thoughts!
You can magnetize your love by being you, being true to yourself! Focus on what you want and you start attracting more of that into your life. If you want to feel more love, focus on love and fill yourself with love. You can start this by saying to yourself in front of the mirror 'I love you', listening to yourself and making choices that feel right for you, as well as cultivating positive thoughts about yourself. You're an awesome magnet for love and positivity. Shine on!
With Love & Light,